Having a difficult time pulling away? That’s because they are a familiar spirit which is a result of the intimacy you’ve both shared. That’s why God intended intimacy for marriage because it creates such a strong spiritual bond. The bottom line is you absolutely, positively cannot be around that spirit until you’ve been totally set free from the connection.
It takes time of separation for this to happen, a period of time with no contact in order for that spirit to die; it takes prayer, repentance and time with the Lord but if you’re consistent with everything i wrote above, you will be set free from the emotional and physical bond.