DON’T LET A MAN USE YOU FOR STORAGE (and vice versa)
He says he’s not ready and you love him enough to wait for him but the question is should you wait for him?
My answer is why wait for a city bus when you have a car at home with plenty of gas in it? There’s a new cleaners that I’m trying out and they say that I have 6 months to get my clothes out. I have a ton of clothes and nowhere to put them.
Guess what? Problem solved!!! This has now become my new storage place. I’ll put my clothes in and “when I’m ready” I’ll pick them up when I’M READY and get them out a ticket at a time. There’s no urgency on their part, so there’s no urgency on my part. They’re the one who have to deal with the space problem, not me, I’m good.
Do you get what I’m saying? Your heart, soul, and body is not a storage place for them to dump their mess until they’re ready to pick it back up. You can’t effectively operate a business or life like that.
Put your foot down, life is too short, get out and live your life. Don’t wait for anybody who doesn’t love you enough to take you now!